8
The supreme good is like water,
which nourishes all things without trying to.
It is content with the low places that people
disdain.
Thus it is like the Tao.
In dwelling, live close to the ground.
In thinking, keep to the simple.
In conflict, be fair and generous.
In governing, don’t try to control.
In work, do what you enjoy.
In family life, be completely present.
When you are content to be simply yourself
and don’t compare or compete,
everybody will respect you.
9
Fill your bowl to the brim
and it will spill.
Keep sharpening your knife
and it will blunt.
Chase after money and security
and your heart will never unclench.
Care about people’s approval
and you will be their prisoner.
Do you work, then step back.
The only path to serenity.
–Tao Te Ching by Lao-tzu
Translated by Stephen Mitchell
Thank you – I needed to be reminded of this today as I watch my son struggle through his addiction. Currently he is in the grips of obsession and will not listen to anyone. Like you mentioned in previous post – technically insane. He has left home in anger, because I will not allow him to use while he is living. I hope he finds his bottom and comes to his senses. I do not know where his bottom is or if he has one. Many people die or live in misery for years. Some like you find god and recover. Are you in minority?