Sorry, But Nothing “Happens” to An Addict or An Alcoholic – Your Entire Life Has Been Created By You and No One Else

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I have made a commitment to tell the truth about addiction, alcoholism, recovery and God as it has been revealed to me through my experience and what I have learned over the years. Therefore, I will never sugar-coat this subject nor will I censor myself. This is not only a life and death concern, but the truth is especially important when you consider the damage and abuse addicts and alcoholics inflict on their families, spouses, parents, children, friends, communities, the entire world, and of course, themselves.

Speaking to my wife today who expressed a shared aversion to the soon to follow phrase and general attitude, I managed to find some inspiration to write… so here are some thoughts.

The worst thing anyone can tell an addict is, “I’m so sorry this is happening to you.” Um, nothing is “happening” to us. We have literally created our current lives in entirety and we alone are responsible for everything that “happens” to us. Needless to say, we are also responsible for how we respond to these events. We must take ownership of the people we have become. Addiction does not “happen” to you. You turn yourself willingly and quite deliberately into an addict. You have made your life about nothing but yourself, your comfort and your physical pleasure. You have refused to grow up and accept adult human life the way it is. And like a child, you do not care about anyone else but yourself. You do not think about others, because if you did, you would understand that anything you do to hurt yourself breaks the hearts of those who love you. There is no getting around this. Using drugs and drinking is selfish NO MATTER WHAT.

So just like we can choose God and what it is right, we can (and we do) also choose evil and what is objectively wrong. Yes, we choose to be addicts or we choose to be recovered. If the progressive bullshit you hear today were true and addicts actually could not stop, nobody would ever recover. This is of course, asinine, and runs contrary to logic, reason, experience and truth. I have been recovered for 17 years and I have no obsession to use or drink whatsoever. For the 15 years prior to returning to sanity, all I did was use. At some point, I become genuinely terrified about the condition and the fate of my soul, and it is at that moment that God began to conspire to facilitate a spiritual experience whereby I was touched by the Lord.

By the way, His power is not only real but it is so mind-blowing and limitless and intense, that once a person is touched by Him, the drug problem vanishes. If you come to want God and spiritual growth more than drugs (and trust me, it is much better), you have solved your problem. There is also a sudden and keen awareness that everything we have generally believed in life is a lie. For one, fear is a lie. Fear is the greatest human illusion and it is sin. It is the opposite of faith. It is also the single reason why nothing in your life works out, if that is the case with you. The secret to success is merely the absence of fear… and some hard work, of course. But when we let go and give our lives to God and trust in Him, not only will have everything we need, but the rest of our worldly lives will succeed to the greatest degree possible.

So regarding the notion the addiction “happens” to the addict (this is difficult to even write as it is so absurd), there is no such thing as a trigger. Nothing outside of you makes you drink or use, nor does it make you WANT to drink or use. YOU are the one and the only thing that makes you use and that makes you want to use. Breathing is the only trigger. And if you are sober and you still want to use or drink, you are guaranteed to relapse because you are still completely insane. Only when the obsession is removed and you have been restored to sanity by your Creator (thus establishing a relationship with Him and with your conscience), will you then never return to using drugs or drinking alcohol, which are all spiritual poisons. Alcohol in particular opens the individual up to demonic energy and is particularly destructive. How ironic that it is the most widely used, legally sold substance.

The utter nonsense that liberal progressives, faux scientists, doctors and experts say about addiction and recovery is unbelievable and dangerous. Relapse is part of recovery? What a stupid thing to say to an addict. “Hey, listen, give it a try but if you relapse over and over and over and over again, no biggie.” Sorry, but no. The truth? Relapse has nothing to do with recovery. That’s the point of recovery – you don’t relapse.

The mindset that something external is “happening” to us is a dangerous and warped belief to adopt. First of all, it is the antithesis of self-honesty and therefore the antithesis of true growth and recovery. No addict will get better when they have been brainwashed with a false victim mentality. We are not victims of drugs and alcohol. The idea that we are victims of anything is the typical lie of the degenerate. When an addict loses a job, family, friends, housing, money or custody of a child, that is nobody’s fault but their own. What may I ask is one doing having children as an active drug addict? Nothing on Earth could be more selfish. It is also immature and displays a severe lack of judgment, let alone intelligence. Worse, it signals that there is no conscience inside the addict, for if there were, he and/or she would never choose to abuse a child in this way. Addicts and alcoholics are pathological.

So if you have been brainwashed by waiting room wisdom, pamphlets from your doctor, or anything you see or hear on TV, turn towards God and become honest. Take Steps as they are laid out in the Big Book. Then run towards Christ and seek to do His will with every breath that you take.

 

Darkness

 

     I will get back to addiction after this post, but as I have children whom I love with all of my heart, I can no longer in good conscience remain silent about what is happening to our country and to the world…

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Government is the problem, not the solution. 

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     Now that we have entered a very dark period of Leftist totalitarianism and “covid” tyranny (an evidenced, pre-planned psy-op carried out by a collection of climate/globalist lunatics & terrorists including Bill Gates, Anthony Fauci, George Soros and Klaus Schwab) where all freedoms, privacy and human rights will be lost (let alone all savings and small businesses), where anyone who dares to disagree will be censored, smeared, bankrupted or jailed, and where any semblance of our Constitution and Bill of Rights will be shat on at every turn, I should probably watch what I say… but guess what?

     Fuck that. Continue reading

Moral Relativity

     What is moral relativity?

     It means that anything goes. It means that if I don’t think something I did is wrong (even if it hurts you), then it isn’t. It means that what is right for me doesn’t have to be right for you and vice versa. It basically means that there is no more right and wrong.
    We now live in a culture/country of moral relativity and as a result, the individual and group conscience is dying. This is actually quite frightening, because when we no longer care about, or when we no longer commonly accept what is right and what is wrong, then we essentially become passive robots, or better yet, slaves, who allow all sorts of fraud, corruption and wrongdoing to occur all around us and to us.
     This is what’s now happening to America – especially in all facets of banking and government. This is why the unprecedented fraud, corruption and theft of the American people in 2008 and everyday since hasn’t been prosecuted in the slightest, and it never will be. Why? Because so few know the truth and so few care, especially the sociopathic powers that be. In fact, facilitating and lying about fraud has become the mandate of the current administration as well as the entire house and senate.
     This is why the federal reserve is ‘printing’ money to buy your worth-less mortgages (your loss in home value isn’t being marked to market by the banks – this is accounting fraud), as well as ‘printing’ money to buy treasury bonds in order to service the interest on a parabolic national debt that will soon crash the entire system. Then they are selling the newly created bonds (dollars printed are exchanged for bonds) to foreigners so they can then take those dollars and come buy everything up or just be left holding the bag like everybody else, as the dollar steadily loses value.
     Essentially, you (the middle class) are being extinguished financially, along with your children’s future (as it is now mathematically impossible to grow our way out of this = debt will continue rising), knowingly and with purpose, but nobody really knows and nobody really cares. The truth? Our entire economy is fake, as it functions on a debt-based monetary system. Our prosperity has been borrowed into existence, and therefore has been funded by the expansion of debt. What happens when we can no longer borrow and print our way into growth and prosperity…???
     As a result of all this, the dollar paradigm will be coming to an end this decade, as the US/UK hegemony slowly comes apart. Much of our purchasing power will be destroyed as the powers that be inflict rampant inflation upon us in order to line their own pockets and the pockets of the largest, most corrupt banks in the world. The dollar is already being rejected in international trade. Power is shifting back East. The Chinese yuan will be backed by gold and will vie to replace the dollar as the new world reserve currency, or at least be a major player. Regardless, the international monetary system will be reset and replaced after the largest debt bubble in history pops. If you think 2008 was bad, you ain’t seen nothin’ yet.
     Forgive me, I digress. Back to addiction. Who else lives by the degenerate philosophy of moral relativity? Drug addicts. Drug addicts will justify any number of the sick, twisted, harmful, selfish, manipulative or destructive things that they do thanks to the sacrilegious doctrine of moral relativity. They simply believe that what they are doing isn’t wrong and magic! It suddenly isn’t wrong. It doesn’t matter if it hurts or affects you negatively. Since I don’t believe what I’m doing is wrong, then it somehow isn’t.
     That is moral relativity. It is a warped and backwards way of thinking and it is destroying us. Once we cross that line, it is very hard to come back. When nobody cares and nobody wants to do anything anymore, we are, for all intents and purposes, a culture of serfs. And if that happens, we are finished. Perhaps this is why Jersey Shore and The Kardashians are the two most popular shows in America. This sort of garbage and distraction, along with moral relativity in general, reflect a culture that is experiencing a macro spiritual problem… no?